Protect yourself

Illustration by Thidang ChhorIt is not difficult to protect yourself and your partner from HIV/AIDS, hepatitis or sexually transmissible infections (STI).

Sometimes both men and women can find it hard to start a conversation about safe sex, but this conversation is the most important way for you to protect yourself.

What is safe sex?
Using condoms
Protecting yourself from infected blood
Get tested

what is safe sex?

Safe sex means not allowing your partner's body fluids (blood, semen, vaginal fluids) into your body and vice versa.

Safe activities can include kissing, touching and cuddling. Using condoms for vaginal, anal or oral sex will also protect you from becoming infected with HIV or other STI.

Safe sex is also having only one sexual partner and staying monogamous. If you or your partner have had sex with other people, then you should use condoms or get a sexual health test.

using condoms

A condom is a plastic barrier that is used to cover the penis during sex, to stop fluids being passed from one person to another.

Why use condoms?

  •  A condom is an effective way to protect you and your partner from HIV and other sexually transmissible infections.
  •  Using condoms is a very effective way to prevent unplanned pregnancies.
  •  Condoms are very easy to find. You can get them from any supermarket, petrol station or chemist, and many sexual health services (such as MHSS) give them away for free.
  •  There are different kinds of condoms that can make sex more enjoyable for both you and your partner.

How to use a condom

  •  Open the condom packet carefully so that you do not tear the condom. Pinch the tip of the condom and roll it carefully all the way down th shaft of the erect penis.
  •  Do not use the condom if it is torn or damaged. Only use condoms before their expiry date.
  •  Make sure you withdraw your penis while it is hard to prevent the condom slipping off. Hold the base of the condom while you withdraw, to prevent spills.
  •  Do not reuse condoms. Dispose of used condoms in a rubbish bin.

A lubricant is a water-based gel that you put on the outside of a condom to make it slippery and so it feels good for both partners. Using a lubricant during sex can prevent tearing on the genitals or the condom.

Source: Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society at La Trobe University.

Protecting yourself from infected blood

HIV, hepatitis B and hepatitis C can also be spread through infected blood. In Australia, this happens most often among people who share needles when injecting drugs. If you inject drugs, then do not share your needle with anyone else and use a new needle every time.

You can also get infected if you get a tattoo or body piercing at a place where the equipment is not sterilised.

Do not share equipment such as toothbrushes or razors with other people, as they can carry small and invisible amounts of infected blood.

Get tested

Tests for HIV, hepatitis and STI are simple, painless and free. If you get tested and even if you have an infection, you can access treatment and stop yourself from infecting others.

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Got a question?

You can contact the Multicultural Heath and Support Service to ask any questions. We can talk to you over the phone or meet you in person. Our support is private and confidential.

We can help by:

> giving you more information
> finding a place for you to get tested or treated
> helping you find other services that can support you

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